Life Influences

This is my father 30 some years ago at one of his many visits to the Lubavitcher Rebbe, considered the most influential Rabbi in modern history. Today is the 27th anniversary of his passing.

Most people who have met me in my adult life are often surprised to learn of my background.

I don’t exactly look, talk, practice or think like what many associate with orthodox judaism, let along chassidim.

But it is such a big part of who I am, that anyone who gets to know me soon learns where I come from.

The teachings of the Rebbe and of Chabad (the chassidic movement that he led) have so significantly shaped who I am and how I see the world.

My father did not grow up religious at all. He was aware and proud of his Jewish heritage and identity, but he had little to no relationship with the religious aspects of Judaism. He was quite the political and social activist from his early years - fighting hard for civil rights and even calling for “revolution.” (I guess activism runs in my blood!)

My mother grew up in a more traditional Jewish home and I like to think when she met my father in grad school she was going through a bit of a “rebellious” phase.

Shortly after they were married, my father encountered Chabad, and being who he was, he recognized its inherent beauty and through it, his own relationship with G-d. 

My brothers and I were raised in a home with this foundation. We would travel from Philadelphia to Brooklyn on Sundays to receive a blessing from the Rebbe and a dollar to give to charity. Being in his presence was something that felt incredibly holy, even at a very young age.

So how does a progressive, liberal, feminist music-industry vet emerge from this background?

It’s simple really.

The Rebbe taught us to be ourselves, to find our uniqueness and use it to make the world a better place. He taught us to lead with love for all of humanity, and to inspire others to discover their own inner G-dliness.

So while I may no longer practice my Judaism in the same way that I was brought up, I am living by its principles in the most authentic way for me. It will forever be a part of me and continue to guide me in every aspect in my life.

We all have a history that has shaped who we are. How we use it is up to us. It doesn’t have to define you or confine you - it can be the launching pad to create your own unique and amazing life.

P.S. I'm a life & impact coach for mission-driven people in the music industry. I can help you take your own unique story and use it to show up authentically as yourself to increase your impact in the world. 

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