Love & Impact

This is a post about love and impact… and how it can come in many forms.

One of my greatest sources of love in my life, came in the form of this beautiful fur-friend named Newman.

Newman’s human, Patrick, was a co-worker and dear friend. He brought Newman to work every day at Bill Silva Management. In fact, Newman was the first to greet me on the day I came in for my interview. It was love at first sight.

Newman became a huge part of my life. I’d see him every day, he would stay with me often when Patrick traveled, and we’d meet for coffee dates even after I left the company and didn’t get to see him every day.

He was one of the most special dogs I ever met. As Patrick said so beautifully, “He was particular in choosing human friends, but once you had him he was massively loyal, ecstatic to be with you and able to bring you joy.” 

Particular, indeed. When I was dating someone that wasn’t right for me, Newman knew that before I did. And he made sure to let me know (situating himself in bed right next to me, snubbing said ex, and other not so subtle hints). He was protective and loving beyond measure.

When talking to him, he’d look at you with almost human eyes, tilting his head just right so you knew he understood everything. We had many a productive and creative meeting together (Newman had a lot of great marketing ideas for Jason Mraz!).

When I learned on Friday that Newman had passed suddenly, my heart broke. Since they moved to Nashville, I hadn’t seen him in a few years, but I always believed I’d see him again. When Patrick texted that he included my name as he whispered the names of people he loved during his last moments, and his ears perked up - my heart almost burst.

Here’s what I know. Newman had a huge impact on my life. He wasn’t even my dog but he made all of the people in his life feel like he was theirs. He taught me so much about unconditional love, friendship, and just spreading joy wherever he can. 

Here’s what else I know… if a dog who wasn’t even mine, can have that big of an impact on me and so many lives - then we humans, with our words, our talents, and our unique abilities can quite literally impact the entire world.

So don’t hold the amazing things that make you YOU back. The world needs them.